See the World…episode 8

If Iohan can pedal around the world, why can’t I get a blog post up before the day is over?

Seems kind of hard to figure out somehow.

Here, our intrepid traveller is down in South America still….pedaling and seeing new sights…..recording it all for our benefit as he goes along.

(Remember the carousels of slides that we used to endure, “slide shows” of action packed holidays, static re-creation of our more active recreations? That was a while ago. I guess that some of us had 8 and 16mm movies, but the days of the GoPro were far in the future. I’m glad that we can make movies like this these days….it’s more interesting than watching a slide show.)

I am nearing the end of a 7 day vacation….and, other than relaxing and hanging out with my family, I don’t know what I used the time for.

“Relaxing….and hanging out with my family”…..that should be enough.

All this pedaling looks pretty amazing.

All these movies make me feel like Andy Griffith….looking at National Geographic with Floyd in the barber shop, dreaming of a bigger world outside of Mayberry.

I have enough on my plate right here….but it sure is fun to travel.

I would love to get back out on the road again.

Someday…..

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my pleasure

New Years Eve….and we’re watching “Moana” on Android TV on an older Nexus Player….and Maui says “you’re welcome” after coming back to save Moana….towards the end of the movie…and, for some reason, I thought of the guys at Chick-Fil-A saying “my pleasure” when they serve you and you say “thank you” to them.

“My pleasure”.

That’s beautiful.

We ate at a McDonalds in Greenville, and the guy behind the counter’s response to the same “thank you” was “not a problem”.

“Not a problem”?

Not so good.

Not as good as “my pleasure”.

It’s only when you have something as decent and kind as “my pleasure” to compare “not a problem” to do you start to see how weak a response “not a problem” is.

Why should it be a problem? They got your money….they aren’t doing you a favor. Why would it possibly be a problem?

Our ultimate pleasure on this earth is found in being in service to others.

I forget that.

I forget that with my family….and I forget that with the world at large.

I forget that the role that makes me really happy…is consciously making other people happy.

But, really now, why would a grumpy old fool like me ever remember something like that, anyway?

“My pleasure”?

I love that.

What a great response to a thankyou…..and…whether I mean it all the time or not, I should start working on giving that as a response when I am gifted with a “thank you”.

Because it is a gift for a kindness to be acknowledged.

It’s all a gift if I’m looking with the right eyes.

Seeing it all with the right eyes and perspective?

My pleasure.

Happy New Years.

 

 

Moby….Dick.

My youngest son, Nate, is obsessed with Melville’s Moby Dick.

I’m not talking about the singer, Moby.

I’m talking about the whale.

How does a seven-year old get obsessed with a story of…. the obsession that a seasoned whaler has for his nemesis, the great white whale, Moby Dick?

How does that happen?

Anyway, it’s really kind of cool.

When Jenny and I were getting ready for the birth of our first child, Zoe, a bunch of years ago, I said, “I hope she doesn’t turn out to be a lump”.

And…none of our children are lumps…..just a bunch of young people full of character and personality.

They are characters.

No lumps.

Moby Dick is a big book with a lot of big themes.

How did our Nate get so interested in it all?

Beats me.

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I got a copy of Tim Ferris’ new book, “Tools of Titans”, for Christmas, and one of the things that he mentioned that many of the people he’d interviewed in the book recommended was this speech by Neil Gaiman.

Art is hard, I guess.

That’s true, right?

Art must be hard.

I work for the Post Office now….driving a rural route….and I’m so very thankful that I have the opportunity to make a living and keep my family relatively financially stable.

That’s a real blessing to have that job.

It’s a perfect job, too….short periods of indirect supervision followed by a longer period of driving around and listening to the radio, putting mail in black boxes along the way, running packages to porches, talking to dogs….talking to people…..every day.

Every…..single….day.  46+ hours a week.

That’s a lot of life to trade for “making a living”.

I couldn’t ask for better, really.

Still, I chafe.

I chafe at the reins because, maybe, it isn’t “art”, whatever that means.

I’m not willing (or brave enough) to sacrifice my families stability for some dream that I didn’t work at developing before I was married and we had our children.

Maybe it’s just something else to complain about? Maybe the perceived loss of freedom is something that I’d be too scared or too lazy to act on….if I had the freedom to do it?

If I haven’t done it already, what makes me think that I’d do it if I wasn’t employed?

Good grief, though….there is something pretty enticing and noble about creating art.

It’s the thing that’s just beyond the tether….just out of reach of the junk yard dog….stretched to the limit, reaching….knowing that he’ll never taste what can’t be attained because of the thing that’s “holding him back”….that looks like the best thing he’ll never have.

My life is good….what more could I want?

Everything good.

That’s what I want…everything good.

Even if everything I have is pretty great….I want more …and better of it.

That’s pretty wacky, huh?

boats that fly….

It was in the 60’s here today….and, tonight, I just thought of iceboats for the first time in a long time.

Man, it would be fun to fly on the ground in a boat that rides the ice.

60’s in very late December is kind of strange.

I don’t think that we’ll have lakes that are frozen enough for something like this anytime this year.

I don’t think that we’ll ever have a lake that gets frozen enough for something like this.

Ever.

That’s the beauty of living in the South….while other people are battling blizzards, we’re usually watching them on the television.

I’d rather watch someone battle a blizzard on the television anyday….no matter how Norwegian I am.

It’s easier to deliver the mail when the ground isn’t slippery.

Man, it would be fun to glide across the ice again in something other than a car, though.

it looks so good….

We went to see this tonight….the “boys” did, at least.

(My oldest daughter had seen it earlier in the week….and my wife and youngest daughter had no interest in it.)

We saw the movie in 3-D in a good theater with a great sound system, so the experience was about as good as it gets.

It’s a beautiful movie….beautiful special effects….but….I really didn’t mind when it was over.

I won’t miss any of the characters.

Of course, it wasn’t really set up for any sequels.

When you see it, you’ll know what I mean.

The chance of seeing most of these characters again is pretty slim.

It’s fun to go to the movies with my sons.

This was a good one to see with them (Nate is swinging a light saber behind my head as I type this)….but I don’t know if my high expectations were met by this one.

It’s a prequel to the whole story….so it has its place in the legend that Star Wars has developed over the years….but I don’t know that it’s one of my favorites.

Maybe it will grow on me?

Christmas is an Easy Target

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It’s not hard to write a Christmas post.

You can reminisce a little, you can talk about the present, you can project on into the future if you get really adventurous.

You can sit here, in the early morning, alone at the keyboard while everyone else is still asleep at 7:20 (which is probably the biggest Christmas miracle of all….that these little guys are still asleep) and have your very own “Christmas Carol”.

Dickens knew what he was doing.

It’s good to get a handle on some of the real meanings of Christmas….you just don’t need a trio of ghosts to help you do it.

It’s a no-brainer, anyway.

Christmas is about Christ.

That’s not hard to figure out.

That’s an old story.

We should know it by heart.

“By heart”…..

We’ll open our presents….eat our meal….and relax together as a family….but what it really comes down to is this is the day that Christ was born.

The kids sang “happy birthday” this morning before we ate our breakfast.

Why don’t we always sing happy birthday to Jesus on this day?

That might be a good tradition to start?

(It’s 5:30 and I’m trying to finish this post…..but it’s coming slow in fits and starts. A Christmas post is an easy target. If you ever have something that’s worth writing about, it’s a day like today….but it’s hard to describe a miracle. I hope that you had a good day….that it was full of the best of Christmas….that you remembered what the day was all about….)

That’s it.

I’m pooped and I’m running out of words.

Goodnight.

 

Merry Christmas!

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What a pleasure to be able to bring this fine post back around for another Christmas Eve!

A friend in Alaska, Rod Perry, wrote this a couple of years ago, and has allowed me to use it as a Christmas post for a number of years on my own blog.

That’s a big deal to me.

Read the post….it puts things in a good perspective during a busy “holiday season”….and is a great reminder of what Christmas is really about.

Thanks again, Rod!

Merry Christmas, everybody!

Ice Cream and Lemonade

My mother spent her last years here with us near the old Iditarod Trail. But she grew up in a sod house and half dugout on a land claim in New Mexico Territory. She was born at a time when Pancho Villa’s raiding was keeping things lively thereabouts, before the territory became our forty-seventh state.

Among the frontier folk who scratched out a bare living scattered about the arid, sparsely-grassed country were many that were hardly schooled. Once a good little wife and mother walked five rough miles across the plains (then five back home) to borrow from my grandmother some “ingredients.” When questioned what ingredients in particular she sought, the poor dear looked puzzled. She explained that she had flour, salt, baking powder, and everything else called for except the item, “ingredients” she saw mentioned in the recipe.

My mother happened to be in the general store when a little girl came in to pick up an order. “I came to get wipin’ paper. Ma said put it on our bill.” The store keeper, not recognizing which family the girl belonged to, asked, “Little Lady, who is this for?” To which she answered, “All of us.”

Parents on a distant claim sent word around that they would be holding a birthday party for their son. A social event of such rarity drew every kid within walking or riding distance. My mother went, as did three sisters who came as they did each day to school, astride Ol’ Silas, their mule. Upon arrival each guest paid respects to the birthday boy then joined in the festivities honoring him as the center of attention. That is, until a young chap, getting there late, burst through the door. With not so much as a look in the direction of the one whose birthday was the sole reason for the entire gathering, he loudly proclaimed, “I come for ice cream and lemonade!”

Now, looking around during the Christmas season, I see parties, celebrations, plays and performances, going home for the holidays, family, children and friends. I see Santa and traditions, gift giving and benevolence to the needy. Center Jesus in his rightful place and it’s all so rich. But those celebrants who leave out the Savior, never stopping to so much as acknowledge God’s greatest gift as the very reason for the season, well, they are as crudely off the mark as that boorish late-arriving boy at the party on the plains almost a century ago. Leave Jesus out and even the highest and best of the rest is only, “I come for ice cream and lemonade!”

A “Happy Holidays” kind of Christless Christmas season, one that ignores, circumvents, or purposely shuts out both the Christ and the mass (celebration of his birth) might best be summed up using words of the famous trailsman, gold rush dog driver, Old Ben Atwater. “Whagh! Why, it’s all worth no more than a cold half pinch of last years’ bear scat!”

If even that.

When you guage Christmas by how it feels to be a postman during the holidays….period.

What do I have to complain about?

Nothing.

“Nothing” is the answer to that question…..but, still….

Man….I’m so tired.

One more day until Christmas, and it feels like I’ve been put through the wringer.

I”m glad the season is almost over.

That’s kind of a shame, too.

You should be able to revel in the mounting enthusiasm….ride the wave of Christmas spirit until the wave peaks and you wake up on Christmas morning, joyful about everything connected to the season…..and not feel tired and excited that the hurry and discomfort is coming to a close.

One of my buddies on the route had 3 cookies, wrapped and ready for eating, and the two latest Leonard Cohen CDs waiting for me when I got to his mailbox today.

I used to work with him at the PO….in fact, his was the route that I took over when he retired.

I get some tips at Christmas from some of my customers.

(To say that they can buy my affections is kind of crass, but….they really do hold a special place in my heart…..)

Anyway….I get some tips….monetary and food related…..but this was one of my favorites.

Cookies and Leonard…..singing about the end of his life.

There’s a lot of gravity in that last Leonard Cohen album.

It was good to listen to on the route today.

That was a thoughtful tip….and some darn good cookies, too.

I guess that what I really do, if I can back up enough from my exhaustion to recognize it, is….I deliver possibilities.

At some house this season, there’s going to be somebody who’s really happy because of a package that I delivered.

That’s a big deal.

When I feel like I’m just another faceless cog in a constantly turning machine, I need to remember that what I do really does matter.

But, heck…who doesn’t make a contribution to the general good that matters in some way?

I don’t remember all of the faces of the people who sold me stuff for my family this year….but….I should.

I need to slow it down a little and really take a look at the people I come in contact with.

That’s all that any of us needs, really….we just need to be noticed on some level.

I’m tired….and I ramble when I’m tired, but….this really was a good holiday season.

In spite of all my tired whining, it was good!

“Holiday season”? Heck….this was a great Christmas!

Christmas was the day that Christ was born!

It’s easy to forget that when you’re delivering too many packages.

I remember.